Buying sex toys online doesn’t automatically mean every product will meet your needs. Product pages often focus on the number of vibration modes, app features or particularly realistic materials. Less prominent are questions about cleaning, choosing the right type of lubricant or how water-resistant a product really is.
The following selection criteria can help adult singles, men, women and couples assess marketing claims objectively and avoid buying the wrong product.
A wide range of vibration or intensity settings can be useful, as long as the controls are straightforward. What matters, however, is whether you can control the modes on the device itself, with a remote control or only through an app. If you’re considering an app-controlled sex toy, also check whether you need a compatible smartphone and a Bluetooth connection.
A device rated IPX7 is protected against temporary immersion under defined conditions, according to this rating. That doesn’t mean every accessory is also waterproof. For example, the ring on the BANANASOME Dragon S1 is water-resistant, while its charging case must be kept dry. Make sure charging ports are completely dry before charging.
Silicone and TPE need to be treated differently. Some TPE products require particularly thorough cleaning and must be allowed to dry completely, as the material may be more sensitive to certain lubricants or harsh cleaning products. For products intended for anal use, a secure base and the right size are also important safety features. Use these products only as directed by the manufacturer, and never on irritated or injured skin.
Many products are described as being made from body-safe silicone. Product information for TPE masturbators generally recommends water-based lubricant. Oil- or silicone-based products may affect the material. Always follow the manufacturer’s specific care instructions.
For a male masturbator, the internal texture, opening size, flexibility and ease of cleaning are also important. A model without a battery can be practical for beginners or when travelling, while an electric masturbator offers more settings.
A female vibrator may be designed for clitoral, vaginal or combined stimulation. According to its product description, the Satisfyer Pro 2 Classic Blossom is a clitoral vibrator with 11 pressure-wave programmes. A G-spot vibrator or flexible dual-stimulation model, on the other hand, should be chosen according to its shape, flexibility and ease of use.
With a vibrating penis ring, fit, material and how long you wear it are particularly important. An adjustable model may fit a wider range of body sizes. Always start electrical functions such as EMS at the lowest setting, and stop immediately if you feel uncomfortable.
For anal products, length, diameter, ease of insertion and a sufficiently wide base are essential details to check. A prostate massager or remote-controlled anal plug should be used slowly and with plenty of water-based lubricant. A remote control or app may be appealing for couples, but it’s no substitute for using the product safely.
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The recommendations below group specific models by their features and typical use. Details about modes, materials and protection ratings are based on the respective product descriptions.
Why this product suits this profile: According to the product description, this manual male masturbator needs neither batteries nor a charger and can be used with water-based lubricant. Its compact size makes it easy to store discreetly.
No unnecessary app, battery or unclear electronic features. Clean it with warm water and mild soap, as stated in the product information.
TPE material, a textured internal channel and simple manual operation, with no need for charging equipment.
Why this product suits this profile: According to the product description, this clitoral vibrator combines Liquid-Air technology, 11 pressure-wave programmes, silicone and an IPX7 rating.
The number and type of programmes are clearly specified. According to the product information, it can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap.
Rechargeable battery, silicone surface and stated IPX7 water resistance.
Why this product suits this profile: This model is designed for users looking for a prostate massager with several vibration and thrusting modes, as well as a remote control.
The product description clearly states the number of vibration and thrusting modes. Before buying, check the dimensions and intended use.
Eight vibration modes and five thrusting modes according to the product information, plus a rechargeable design and remote control.
Why this product suits this profile: According to the description, this wearable model is designed for intimate moments together and has two vibration motors and ten settings.
The remote control and features are clearly specified. Before buying, check the range, fit and cleaning instructions.
Wearable design, two motors and ten stated vibration settings.
We’ve put together a complete, regularly updated list of products that meet these strict selection criteria and fully comply with the safety regulations in force in the EU.
As well as the purchase price, factor in consumables and the time needed for care. Water-based lubricant is the right choice for many products. Battery-powered models need replacement batteries, while rechargeable products need to be charged regularly. A charging case can be handy, but don’t assume it can be used underwater.
After each use, remove any residue as directed by the manufacturer. TPE products should be left to air-dry completely. Do not use electrical devices while they are charging. Stop using the product immediately if you experience pain, irritation or discomfort.
Lifespan depends on the material, how often the product is used, how it is cleaned and stored, and the battery. With proper care, silicone products can last a long time. TPE may be more sensitive to unsuitable lubricants or heat. Visible cracks, sticky surfaces, changes to the material or damaged cables are all reasons to stop using a product.
Look for information about plain packaging and check which sender details will appear on the parcel. At Joybuy, check the delivery information on the relevant product page and during checkout. Plain outer packaging helps protect your privacy, but doesn’t tell you anything about the material quality or technical features.
It depends on how you want to use them. A couples’ sex toy with a remote control allows you to control it together, while a vibrating penis ring or wearable vibrator can stimulate different areas of the body at the same time. It’s important to choose the right size, make sure the controls are easy to understand and check that the care instructions are clear.